tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post4474396868544708640..comments2018-06-03T02:13:49.956-04:00Comments on Abstinent Sexblog: Looking at neurosesUncommonMurrehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999723370789881734noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-66557671363064285412010-11-05T07:35:43.650-04:002010-11-05T07:35:43.650-04:00Thank you, quizzical pussy! I'm really sorry ...Thank you, quizzical pussy! I'm really sorry if you have both, though I'm glad you have overcome them as much as you have!AndrewVanbergenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14923434958244441857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-73067758459876607522010-11-04T23:47:09.928-04:002010-11-04T23:47:09.928-04:00Great post. You raise some interesting points that...Great post. You raise some interesting points that I've never considered before (particularly describing the automatic dignity rations). Oddly enough, I really relate to the male neurosis of feeling ridiculous and overeager and guilty for making my sexuality bothersome because I'm gross and unattractive. But it results in behavior that's more typically like the female neurosis you describe. Maybe I have collected them all.<br /><br />Thanks for the heads up on this! Glad I read it.quizzical pussyhttp://quizzicalpussy.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-12139023069293316022010-10-29T21:16:47.418-04:002010-10-29T21:16:47.418-04:00Thank you! I like your condensed version.Thank you! I like your condensed version.AndrewVanbergenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14923434958244441857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-27825242391774150692010-10-29T19:44:20.989-04:002010-10-29T19:44:20.989-04:00If I were to condense the awesome (and it is), I&#...If I were to condense the awesome (and it is), I'd put it as: Men are given a mountain to climb. Women are given a peak to fall off of.LabRathttp://www.atomicnerds.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-53045477070898611052010-10-29T08:22:58.889-04:002010-10-29T08:22:58.889-04:00Thank you so much! I thought I might be saying th...Thank you so much! I thought I might be saying things that all women knew already; but I'd never seen it summed up like that so I thought it was worth putting it together. I think few men know about it.AndrewVanbergenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14923434958244441857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-90126487995638473112010-10-28T22:00:40.294-04:002010-10-28T22:00:40.294-04:00I fucking love this post and when I grow up I am g...I fucking love this post and when I grow up I am going to MARRY it. You've said so many things that I'd kind of noticed before but never actually put into words.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-79663808963224982422010-10-28T09:54:21.903-04:002010-10-28T09:54:21.903-04:00I've quit trying to beat myself into grading p...I've quit trying to beat myself into grading papers when I'm too grouchy to be fair, so I should have a little more time.Heroditus Huxleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11049569750742829144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-41036567972291014432010-10-27T19:30:04.854-04:002010-10-27T19:30:04.854-04:00BTW, Heroditus, glad to see you back! I hope the ...BTW, Heroditus, glad to see you back! I hope the workload has eased up a bit.AndrewVanbergenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14923434958244441857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-15772345479969126562010-10-27T17:58:20.289-04:002010-10-27T17:58:20.289-04:00I think the second point might be more important t...I think the second point might be more important than the first; sometimes when women are inhibited they are most inhibited with the people whose opinions matter to them most. So it's exactly their best beloved that they can't be all undignified and orgasmic with.<br /><br />My wife had a bit of that, it was extra hard for her to talk about sex with me, because I knew much more about it than she, and she hated feeling childish or ignorant with me especially.AndrewVanbergenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14923434958244441857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-8432771179212812892010-10-27T17:37:16.719-04:002010-10-27T17:37:16.719-04:00I guess it helps when you're a borderline soci...I guess it helps when you're a borderline sociopath, and truly don't give a damn what others think of you, other than the few you care about. At least, that's how it works for me. I only care about my husband's, son's, and my unborn daughter's opinions. No one else really shakes my self-image.<br /><br />I suppose it also helps that I always hated the Disney princesses. Helpless and stupid, the lot of them.Heroditus Huxleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11049569750742829144noreply@blogger.com