tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post1362734464199637456..comments2018-06-03T02:13:49.956-04:00Comments on Abstinent Sexblog: What to do on the spur of a bad moment?UncommonMurrehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999723370789881734noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-13173088934545372292012-02-24T22:45:26.923-05:002012-02-24T22:45:26.923-05:00Those sound like good ideas, but I am not in any s...Those sound like good ideas, but I am not in any sort of position of influence at the con. All I can do is think about what I will do.AndrewVanbergenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14923434958244441857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-78940453337982989702012-02-24T18:56:31.096-05:002012-02-24T18:56:31.096-05:00Still a con-wide agreed on distress signal for env...Still a con-wide agreed on distress signal for environments where the typical "help", "stop", or even "rape" might not mean what they do in everyday life might be a good idea.<br /><br />Only other thought I can think of would be perhaps a talk at the next con about "physical safety in scene". It could cover everything from safe calls to mentally making clear where the bedroom door closes.Odysseushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16710666926746925370noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-13527453098643974792012-02-22T21:04:51.632-05:002012-02-22T21:04:51.632-05:00Thanks for the thoughts! Wicked Faire is mostly a...Thanks for the thoughts! Wicked Faire is mostly a con that happens to be attended by mostly kinksters; scenes take place in people's hotel rooms, not as an actual part of the con. Except the demos off in the age-restricted side wing.AndrewVanbergenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14923434958244441857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-22708936550600391892012-02-22T00:38:53.863-05:002012-02-22T00:38:53.863-05:00Talking with your fellow Faire-goers in a non-scen...Talking with your fellow Faire-goers in a non-scene setting if possible about how to deal with this situation.<br /><br />Ideally multiple people stepping in could frog-march said animal either out or to security.<br /><br />Failing people being at hand to notice things aren't consensual working out an "Alarm" safe-word for people to scream to summon help might be a thought.<br /><br />Just a couple of thoughts off the top of my head, perhaps better will come later.Odysseushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16710666926746925370noreply@blogger.com