tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post6254986960121551343..comments2018-06-03T02:13:49.956-04:00Comments on Abstinent Sexblog: GuiltUncommonMurrehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999723370789881734noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-75967946622009170962012-07-09T08:07:30.623-04:002012-07-09T08:07:30.623-04:00Thanks Rogue Bambi! I didn't reply further an...Thanks Rogue Bambi! I didn't reply further and haven't contacted her since; like you said I think it's probably the best I can do.UncommonMurrehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08999723370789881734noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-50467497434525133712012-07-07T14:40:38.813-04:002012-07-07T14:40:38.813-04:00Yeah... You've not been going out anymore for ...Yeah... You've not been going out anymore for a long, long time. You don't owe her anything. You can't help the situation, because what she is battling now is not the fact that your thing didn't work, but the fact that she thinks she is/feel she is unattractive. That's something that never was your place to make right and it definately isn't anymore. Everybody needs to face those demonds alone. <br /><br />It's probably best, if you don't answer her at all anymore. She's trying to bait something out of you and by keeping in touch you are giving her... something. Do not give her hope, where there's none - and do not give her a scapegoat either! You did nothing wrong. No one can help who their attracted to - not even her.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-38359239587675960512012-06-23T18:23:06.527-04:002012-06-23T18:23:06.527-04:00Thanks, Penny. That's the conclusion I've...Thanks, Penny. That's the conclusion I've been reluctantly coming to.UncommonMurrehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08999723370789881734noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-58484960875614924062012-06-23T17:34:10.719-04:002012-06-23T17:34:10.719-04:00She's manipulating you. She's got no real...She's manipulating you. She's got no real goal other than to hurt you. She's hurt and lashing out. Unfortunately, there's nothing you can do. Really, you've done all you can. Yes, she's legitimately hurt, but you can't fix it.<br />You could apologize again, but it won't help. Hopefully, she'll find her prince charming and realize you did her a favor by breaking it off when you figured out that you didn't value her as highly as you felt she deserved.Pennyhttp://marriedfreaks.comnoreply@blogger.com