tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post2683179635183942567..comments2018-06-03T02:13:49.956-04:00Comments on Abstinent Sexblog: Desire and compromise 2UncommonMurrehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999723370789881734noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-73871672331365325812011-06-23T05:52:29.468-04:002011-06-23T05:52:29.468-04:00Thanks, Ozymandias and Penny. You are correct tha...Thanks, Ozymandias and Penny. You are correct that I'm still harboring desire for my ex, emotionally though not intellectually. Perhaps, as the woman I was dating suggested, I should see a therapist about that. Because I will cheerfully admit that it <i>is</i> crazy.AndrewVanbergenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14923434958244441857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-29521674531573720702011-06-22T19:48:38.493-04:002011-06-22T19:48:38.493-04:00Your plan sounds like a good one. I really think ...Your plan sounds like a good one. I really think you need to do some serious soul searching here because as trite as it sounds, the it's not you it's me speech fits here. I doubt it has much to do with this woman at all. I think you are still harboring desire for your ex. Having the conversation is absolutely the right thing to do.Pennyhttp://marriedfreaks.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616558788482418353.post-69550348610920486942011-06-21T19:22:35.052-04:002011-06-21T19:22:35.052-04:00I think your idea is an excellent idea. You don...I think your idea is an excellent idea. You don't have to get married immediately after you start dating, after all. Maybe you can find someone who's perfect for you in every way. :)<br /><br />And if not, either you can marry her, or she will find someone who's attracted to her and marry him. Win/win!Ozymandiashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08410555827569922830noreply@blogger.com